Monday, August 11, 2008

Mummy's cousin since foetus..


Welcome home Beeeeeeh,


It's been almost 2 years she hasn't step foot in Brunei..I know, we were very close before, there not a moement dat we didn't contact each other.. as what we'll announce to people-known since we were a foetus..although I am a year older than you..So, technically since we were born.
We are related by nature ,from our Mother who are sisters, Not many cousins will survived this unique closeness especially when all of us are starting with new life; getting married, having chores and errants, living in two separate continent and living totally different lifestyle. Bibi met a handsome & kind italian born australian few years ago in Perth, n got hitched few months after I got hitched!!therefore, the distance..
It never failed to surprise our parents that we always want to do same thing, although our personality is adversely different. We used to talk in bed till the wee morning when were younger,share secret which only last a second to our next best fren, burning down the phone line (she will use the fax line, while i use the house line-no handphone yet) with boys on random, we travelled together, party thru like ders no tomorrow, shop for entirely different taste, drive around aimlessly on the street (unlicensed Shh!),cook mostly i'll be helping, take shower quickly coz we were on a rush to go somewhere, annoyed each oder crazy like banging on the toilet door while i was doing business No.2 (man, i hate that)..I would finish what i was doing, get out and drag her big ass to the toilet to give her the preview of what i left inside the toilet bowl( brutal huh!) told her not to mess with my S***.

Over the years, We started to drift apart due to wife-hood, mother-hood and work-hood in a different neighbour-hood..But we managed to meet up in Singapore some 2 years ago to rekindle.. did all the things mentioned in 3 days!!
We still act the same, laugh stupidly at our stupid joke "Is that a PAAAAIG?" (is that a pig?) in aussie accent.it's an ancient incident when i visited her in PErth tryin to pick up the accent over there..No matter how far we are that joke will always trigger us to laugh breathlessly.

Recently , she came back for 3 weeks to visit n though we didn't spend that much time like we used to, it was the best quality time with her,.Amazingly , we never had a fight, maybe disagreement but we always change the subject when things get heat up, dat mutual understading is the only mature thing we had.

She also had a son, that I like to show on the slide..See our differences, she is still d Bibi d silliest girl i've ever known. I hope to see her in near future, coz there's always this fatal attraction to unconditionally love and care for her..as if shes my very own sister..oh ya she addressed me as Kaka, coz she always wanted to have big sister to look out too, but unfortunately this one is unqualified to even labelled as the mature one.
Now that she's in her late 20's n I am in my 30's, being around her is always like we're still 12 and 13..Love U Beh..i hope u're always in good health and happiness.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Ka Mamiiiitttt nice blogs!! Happy belated birthday to Nuryn!! Cute Zeidan ahhh basar udah!! Hehehe btw i;ve invited u to my blog..sorry I kinda abused the blog when i'm feeling down..dun say i didnt warned u ehehehe if ada yg nda tantu2 maafin gue ok..uhuhuhh it's private so u will need to login ur gmail. Btw I saw Ka Bibiiiiii di rumah aunty am few days ago...CUTE anaknya!! love all my anak buahsss so much! Hehe cya soon!

P/s: Dun tell aunty munding or Uncle Jinni if u ada ternampak pics of me duin stupid stuff n whatnot..LOL!

xoxo
-Mai

What a WONDERFUL world said...

hahkaha, hai mai...no worries ur secret save wit me!!awu, anak ka bibi atu cute n goodie..mcm anti2 nya ehehemmm( anti mamit lahh)..K tk care u all!!